Recommend Copari to the separated parents who trust you.
Copari helps separated parents prepare for mediation and family court. If parents already trust your community, service or practice, you can introduce them to Copari, by invitation and with clear rules.
Better prepared for the moments that really count.
Prepare, organise, improve and support: a calmer way for parents to get ready for mediation and family court.
A commercial relationship that can last.
Eligible paid subscriptions may earn you recurring commission for up to 24 months from each parent’s first qualifying payment, once final terms are agreed.
Invitation onlyDraft termsPayouts off
Invitation only. Partner terms are a draft (version 2026-10-29-draft) and payouts are switched off. Illustrated figures are not money earned, owed or payable.
Practical co-parent support — not legal advice.

Commission illustration
Start from an audience of 26,700 or type your own, from a few hundred to millions. Every figure is worked out from the assumptions you choose.
Moderate assumptions, 26,700 peopleDefault example
Illustrative commission over 24 months
£712.39
This illustration reaches the 15% band in month 5. That payment and every later payment use 15%.
Illustration only. Not money earned, owed or payable. Partner terms are a draft and payouts are switched off.
From audience to paying subscribers
- 26,700AudienceEveryone who could hear
- 5,340Reached20% of the audience
- 400Registered7.5% of those reached
- 60Qualifying referrals15% of those registered. 42 Calm, 18 Case Ready.
60 of 26,700 people (0.22%) become qualifying referrals here. Most of any audience will not.
What changes between assumption sets
The same audience of 26,700 people under each example set, over 24 months.
- Cautious£98.97
Reach 10%, register 5%, pay 10%13 qualifying referrals, 10% band from month 1
- ModerateDefaultSelected£712.39
Reach 20%, register 7.5%, pay 15%60 qualifying referrals, 15% band from month 5
- Strong£3,019.87
Reach 30%, register 10%, pay 20%160 qualifying referrals, 20% band from month 4
Commission band reached
- 10%1 to 49 qualifyingReached in month 1.
- 15%50 to 99 qualifyingReached in month 5. Highest band reached.
- 20%100 to 199 qualifyingNot reached.
- 25%200 to 299 qualifyingNot reached.
- 30%300 or more qualifyingNot reached.
Commission each month
62% of this total comes from months 7 to 24, after the last new referral. Eligible commission continues for up to 24 months from each parent’s first qualifying payment, and only while they keep paying.
| Month | Rate on renewals | New qualifying | Expected paying | Commission | Cumulative |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | None yet | 10 | 10.0 | £16.25 | £16.25 |
| 2 | 10% | 10 | 18.1 | £28.83 | £45.08 |
| 3 | 10% | 10 | 24.8 | £38.77 | £83.85 |
| 4 | 10% | 10 | 30.4 | £46.79 | £130.64 |
| 5 | 10% | 10 | 35.1 | £53.99 | £184.63 |
| 6 | 15% | 10 | 39.2 | £88.11 | £272.74 |
| 7 | 15% | 0 | 32.6 | £70.70 | £343.44 |
| 8 | 15% | 0 | 27.5 | £57.75 | £401.19 |
| 9 | 15% | 0 | 23.4 | £47.92 | £449.11 |
| 10 | 15% | 0 | 20.1 | £40.29 | £489.40 |
| 11 | 15% | 0 | 17.4 | £34.22 | £523.62 |
| 12 | 15% | 0 | 15.1 | £29.31 | £552.93 |
26,700 people with Moderate assumptions gives 60 qualifying referrals and £712.39 of illustrative commission over 24 months.
Better prepared for mediation and family court.
Parents come to Copari to prepare, keep their records in order and communicate more calmly, with their child at the centre.
Prepare with Case Ready
The Guided Preparation Workspace and Preparation Packs help a parent get ready for a professional conversation. The parent stays in control and chooses what to share, and with whom.
Organise the records that matter
Messages, diary entries and supporting files are kept together so they are easier to find later.
Communicate more calmly
Parents can review a difficult message and a calmer, child-focused reply before they decide what to send.
Prepare → Organise → Improve → Support
Prepare
Choose relevant records and parent inputs, then review a Preparation Pack for a professional conversation.
Explore Preparation WorkspaceOrganise
Keep messages, diary entries and supporting files together with SmartTags, Record Threads and Smart Bundles.
Explore Smart DiaryImprove
Review difficult messages and calmer, child-focused replies before you decide what to send.
Explore Message StudioSupport
Practical Learning Journeys, coaching prompts and UK support signposting when you need a next step.
Explore Coaching Hub
Your community's voice can help shape Copari.
Partners are more than referral sources. You are valued contributors: you see what separated parents need, often long before a product does. General, non-identifying insight from your community can help Copari improve its products and support.
What approved partners can do in Partner Voice
- Share an idea with a short title and a description.
- Vote once on each idea. Other approved partners' ideas are visible to you, and yours to them, under your partner name.
- Follow Copari's responses. Each idea shows whether it is open, planned, answered or declined, and declined ideas stay visible.
What to share
- General ideas about what separated parents need, drawn from what you see across your community.
- Suggestions for preparation, communication, keeping records or support.
What to keep out
- Family records, children’s details, private communications or court documents. Never send these.
- Anything that identifies a parent, a child or a family.
Your community shares what parents need
General, non-identifying ideas, shared through Partner Voice.
Copari considers improvements
Copari reads, weighs and responds. Not every suggestion is adopted.
Parents may get more useful ongoing support
Better value for parents is the aim, and it gives your community more to share.
What this could mean, with no promises
- Better ongoing value may support retention.
- Eligible continuing subscriptions may generate further recurring partner commission, under the final terms.
What Partner Voice is not
- Control of Copari’s roadmap. Not every suggestion is adopted, and “planned” is not a delivery promise.
- Equity, a profit share or a say in how Copari is governed.
- A way to see parents’ Copari records. Partners cannot access them.
Partner Voice is for approved partners only. Joining is by invitation, partner terms are a draft (version 2026-10-29-draft) and payouts are switched off.
How commission works
Commission is a share of the price before VAT. These are the rules the illustration uses.
What counts
A parent who registers through your link within 90 days of clicking it, then makes a first paid subscription payment. Free trials do not count.
The rate
Your rate rises with the number of qualifying referrals, in the bands below.
When the rate changes
The payment that takes you into a new band is already at the new rate, and so is every payment after it. Commission already recorded is never recalculated.
How long
Up to 24 calendar months from each parent’s first qualifying payment. A missed month does not extend it.
VAT
Calm is £14.99 a month including VAT (£12.49 before VAT). Case Ready is £29.99 a month including VAT (£24.99 before VAT).
Cancellations and refunds
If a parent cancels, commission on their later payments stops, and they still count toward your band. A refunded payment has its commission reversed, and your band does not go down.
- 10%1 to 49 qualifying referrals
- 15%50 to 99 qualifying referrals
- 20%100 to 199 qualifying referrals
- 25%200 to 299 qualifying referrals
- 30%300 or more qualifying referrals
Partners never see family records
Copari keeps the family records. Partners see only how many parents registered and paid through their link, and the commission recorded against those payments.
What partners never see
Messages, diary entries, evidence, children’s details, family information or Preparation Packs.
What you say when you recommend Copari
I may earn a commission if you choose a paid Copari subscription. I cannot see your family records in Copari. Copari does not provide legal, therapeutic, or safeguarding advice.
Invitation only, in four steps
There is no public application on this page.
Ask about partnering
Email Copari. An email is not an application.
Copari sends an invitation
If there is a fit, Copari invites you.
Accept the draft terms
You sign in or create an account, read and accept the draft terms, and verify your email.
Copari reviews your application
Copari reviews every application before approval.
While the terms are a draft, Copari is not approving external partners. Approval, your referral link and any commission start only after the final terms are agreed.
Trust and compliance
Disclose your commission
Say you may earn a commission, where readers see it before they follow your link.
No promises
Do not promise a court outcome, a diagnosis or a change in another parent’s behaviour.
Published offers only
Do not offer a discount, trial length or price Copari has not published.
Regulated professionals
Solicitors, mediators, therapists and other regulated professionals are not approved automatically, and your regulator may restrict referral fees.
Talk to us about partnering
Tell us who you support and how you would introduce Copari. We will reply by email.
Sending an email does not create an application, an account or an approval.
Questions
Is this an income forecast?
No. The commission illustration works out figures from assumptions you choose. They are not benchmarks, averages or forecasts, and they are not money earned, owed or payable.
Can I apply now?
Not on this page. Partnering is by invitation only. You can ask about partnering by email, but an email is not an application.
When would commission start?
Only after the final partner terms are agreed and you are approved. While the terms are a draft, Copari is not approving external partners and payouts are switched off.
What counts as a qualifying referral?
A parent who registers through your link within 90 days of clicking it, then makes a first paid subscription payment. Free trials do not count.
How long does commission last?
Up to 24 calendar months from each parent’s first qualifying payment. A missed month does not extend it.
What happens if a parent cancels or gets a refund?
Commission on a cancelled parent’s later payments stops, and they still count toward your band. If a payment is refunded, commission on the refunded amount is reversed and your band does not go down.
Is VAT included?
Commission is a share of the price before VAT. Calm is £14.99 a month including VAT (£12.49 before VAT). Case Ready is £29.99 a month including VAT (£24.99 before VAT).
What are Cautious, Moderate and Strong?
Example sets of assumptions you can choose between in the illustration. They are not benchmarks, averages or forecasts. Change any value and the illustration switches to Custom.
What will I be able to see?
How many parents registered and paid through your link, and the commission recorded against those payments. Never messages, diary entries, evidence, children’s details, family information or Preparation Packs.
I am a regulated professional. Can I take part?
Solicitors, mediators, therapists and other regulated professionals are not approved automatically, and your regulator may restrict referral fees.
What must I say when I recommend Copari?
I may earn a commission if you choose a paid Copari subscription. I cannot see your family records in Copari. Copari does not provide legal, therapeutic, or safeguarding advice.
Partner terms: draft version 2026-10-29-draft. This is not the final agreement. Advertising, disclosure, tax, payout and commercial terms still need human approval. Payouts are switched off.