Paste or dictate
Drop in the hostile message or use voice. Copari identifies audience (co-parent/solicitor/school) context.
Calm communication · BIFF (Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm)/JADE (Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain) · Legal risk aware · UK
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Rewrite hostile messages into calm, court-safer replies
Copari coaches you through BIFF/JADE rewrites, flags legal risks and court-lens issues, and spots crisis/boundary problems before you send. Built for UK family court and Cafcass (Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service) expectations.
BIFF/JADE-aligned rewrites with tone controls
Legal risk & court lens panels to avoid escalations
Crisis indicators and boundary warnings before you send
How it works
From emotional to factual in three steps
Rewrite with safeguards
BIFF/JADE rewrite with legal-risk notes, court-lens prompts, and boundary warnings. Keep it brief and factual.
Save or send (gated)
Save to history or send via your workflow. These actions stay gated for your privacy and data control.
See the rewrites, not your data
Explore rewrite examples, legal risk notes, and boundary warnings without exposing any personal content. All interactive actions stay gated.
Before/after rewrite
Before: "You never show up on time and ruin the kids' schedule." After: "Pick-up was 25 minutes late today. Please confirm Thursday's time so the handover stays calm for the children."
Court lens note
Flags speculative language and suggests a concise fact pattern suitable for Cafcass/solicitor review.
Boundary warning
Detects baiting or DARVO patterns and prompts a neutral, child-first reply with a boundary reminder.
These are text descriptions of features. Your data stays private to your account.
What stays gated
Your data and actions remain private. Browsing this page is safe and does not store your content.
- •Saving/sending messages and storing history
- •Attaching original evidence files (screenshots/images, PDFs, audio) to a thread
- •Linking to evidence locker and bundles
FAQs
Questions about calm communication
Is this UK-specific?
Yes. Language and prompts align to UK family court and Cafcass expectations.
Does Copari give legal advice?
No. It helps keep communication calm and court-safer; it is not legal advice.
Can I try it without sending?
Yes. You can explore this explainer. Sending/saving stays gated to your account.
Will this store my messages?
Public pages do not store your data. Saving/sending is gated and linked to your account only.
Stay calm, credible, and ready
Keep your replies brief, factual, and safer to show in UK family court or mediation. Explore safely, then start your trial when you’re ready.
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