Paste or dictate
Drop in a difficult message or use voice. Copari helps you keep the audience and context in mind.
Message Studio⌄
Calm communication · BIFF (Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm)/JADE (Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain) · Legal risk aware · UK
Calm planAlso in Case Ready
Rewrite difficult messages into calm, child-focused replies
Copari coaches you through BIFF/JADE rewrites, highlights careful prompts, and keeps boundary reminders visible before you send. Built for UK co-parenting contexts.
BIFF/JADE-aligned rewrites with tone controls
Careful prompts to reduce escalation
Crisis indicators and boundary warnings before you send
How it works
From emotional to factual in three steps
Rewrite with safeguards
BIFF/JADE rewrite with careful prompts and boundary reminders. Keep it brief and factual.
Save or send (gated)
Save to history or send via your workflow. These actions stay gated for your privacy and data control.
See the rewrites, not your data
Explore rewrite examples, careful prompts, and boundary reminders without exposing any personal content. All interactive actions stay gated.
Before/after rewrite
Before: "You never show up on time and ruin the kids' schedule." After: "Pick-up was 25 minutes late today. Please confirm Thursday's time so the handover stays calm for the children."
Clarity note
Highlights speculative language and suggests a concise factual version that may be easier to review later.
Boundary reminder
Highlights wording that may be worth reviewing and prompts a neutral, child-first reply with a boundary reminder.
These are text descriptions of features. Your data stays private to your account.
What stays gated
Your data and actions remain private. Browsing this page is safe and does not store your content.
- •Saving/sending messages and storing history
- •Attaching original evidence files (screenshots/images, PDFs, audio) to a thread
- •Linking to evidence locker and bundles
FAQs
Questions about calm communication
Is this UK-specific?
Yes. Language and prompts align to UK family court and Cafcass expectations.
Does Copari give legal advice?
No. It helps keep communication calm and child-focused; it is not legal advice.
Can I try it without sending?
Yes. You can explore this explainer. Sending/saving stays gated to your account.
Will this store my messages?
Public pages do not store your data. Saving/sending is gated and linked to your account only.
Stay calm, credible, and ready
Keep your replies brief, factual, and easier to review later. Explore safely, then start your trial when you’re ready.
For solicitors, mediators, charities
Copari helps clients keep messages calmer and more organised. See the professionals view.
View professionals page →Explore Copari
Tools
For professionals