Calm your replies
Paste the message, pick a tone, see a BIFF (Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm)/JADE (Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain)-aligned rewrite with risk notes before you reply.
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UK co-parenting app · Calm communication · Evidence diaries
Rewrite hostile messages, log incidents once, and prepare organised timelines for professional review. UK-focused and informed by family court, Cafcass, and domestic abuse contexts.
How it works (public explainer)
Paste the message, pick a tone, see a BIFF (Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm)/JADE (Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain)-aligned rewrite with risk notes before you reply.
Log handovers and incidents, and attach original evidence files (screenshots/images, PDFs, audio) with time/date and tags. Build an organised record for professional review as you go.
Generate timelines and behaviour summaries that make sense to solicitors, mediators, or Cafcass.
We keep all sensitive actions behind the login, but you can explore how Copari works: BIFF/JADE rewrites, incident diary structure, and export previews for solicitors, mediators, or Cafcass.
Before: “You’re always late and don’t care about the kids.” → After: “Pick-up was 25 minutes late today. Please confirm arrival time for Thursday so we can keep the handover calm for the children.”
Date/time, location, concise summary, original file attachments (screenshots/images, PDFs, audio), safeguarding tag. Example export layout shows how it appears in a timeline.
Shows which clauses have reminders and which are at risk. Users enable reminders inside the app.
These are text descriptions of features. Your data stays private to your account.
To protect your privacy, we keep the interactive parts gated. This public page does not save what you type here; device, browser, and network traces may still exist.
Built for UK trust & safety
Use settings designed to reduce some visible exposure on this device, mask sensitive text, and leave quickly. Informed by UK safeguarding practice.
Incident logs with timestamps, attachments, and safeguarding tags; timelines and bundle previews for discussion with your solicitor or mediator.
FAQs
Yes. We offer Safety Mode, masking, and a quick exit. Browsing this page does not store your data.
Yes. We align language to UK family court, Cafcass expectations, PD12J, and safeguarding norms.
You can explore the explainer and screenshots publicly. Saving incidents, exports, and reminders are gated to your account.
No. Copari supports you to communicate calmly and stay organised. Always seek legal advice for your case.
Copari helps you keep communication measured and records organised for discussion with your solicitor or mediator. Review this public explainer, then start your trial when you’re ready.
For solicitors, mediators, and charities: safer client messaging, timelines, and bundle previews to keep cases moving.
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